So I was in a lovely resort in Santa Barbara which will remain unnamed (you’ll see why!), enjoying their day spa. My body was aching; horseback riding in Ojai had taken its toll on me […]

I spent a few days this week tucked between the Del Monte Forest and the Pacific Shore, among groves of tall Monterey pines. In addition to incomparable golf, my stay included outstanding spa treatme…. .

I sometimes crave a break from the all-too-familiar city life I lead…this last week, I headed up the Colorado River to Moab, a little town at the foot of dramatic red rock cliffs. This classic, […]

Surfed in San Diego with Surf Divas ladies’ surf camp (no boys–great, and less intimidating!). Lounged about at the Hotel Parisi in La Jolla–it’s a little boutique places which reeks of “hip.&#.

I visited Detroit and this week; Detroit is a vibrant, diverse and cultural city that I was honestly surprised to enjoy as much as I did! I checked out the Henry Ford museum on June; […]

I babysat for Stan and Sharon, our neighbors, for three years during high school. Stan always liked me. When he’d pull his Maserati into the garage, it was a Pavlovian ritual every Saturday morning…

I spent a few days in San Francisco, which was amazing! Shopped on Post Street, and went out to Chrissy Fields to enjoy a rare warm and sunny San Francisco day. Pier 39 was crowded […]

Of all the things that have been classified as “perversions, homosexuality is the most politically charged at present. It is a complex issue, clouded by a welter of mainly irrelevant arguments. ….

Just got back from Las Vegas, where the air was hotter than the people! What a blast–we even won a little at the tables, amazingly. Hit up Caramel for drinks and then Light (my favorite […]

The argument supporting the illegality of prostitution is essentially this: prostitution harms both its practitioners and its clients; it is expensive and poor value for money; it is immoral; and it ..

Well, darn–I am home now. I finished off my vacation with a visit to the place that inspired Michener’s mythical “Bali Hai,” and I find it strange to again wear high heels and Gucci, a..

Snug beneath lush, green, cloud-wreathed Mount Otemanu, at the edge of a turquoise lagoon on Point Raititi, I am escaping to a beach protected by a barrier reef to catch some of my three favorite […]

So I’m tan and relaxed now, as I look out my white sandy walkway to the turquoise lagoon. Enjoying some tranquil moments of peace, I’ve just come back in from the warm water…my bungalow…

Certainly polygamy, polyandry, and promiscuity have been common in human history (promiscuity being particularly common when conditions are easy, since how bad it is to have a child out of wedlock dep….

Some of my friends have described their experiences with women in such intimate detail that I have felt a burning down there…later in the evening on those days, I have spent hours alone in bed […]

The doorbell rang. I opened it and saw him him shivering with a bottle of wine tucked underneath his arm. When I let him enter, he leaned forward to give me a quick hug which […]